When you’re in deep shit, keep your mouth shut!

In today’s management lesson, we talk about the importance of discretion, self-control, and careful communication during challenging or problematic situations. Here’s a short story which implies that in times of trouble, keeping your mouth shut can be a more prudent course of action. The story is followed by our perspective on the situation.


A little bird was flying south for the Winter. It was so cold the bird froze and fell to the ground into a large field. While he was lying there, a cow came by and dropped some dung on him. As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, he began to realize how warm he was.

The dung was actually thawing him out! He lay there all warm and happy, and soon began to sing for joy.

A passing cat heard the bird singing and came to investigate.

Following the sound, the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung, and promptly dug him out and ate him.

Morals of this story:

(1) Not everyone who shits on you is your enemy.

(2) Not everyone who gets you out of shit is your friend.

(3) And when you’re in deep shit, it’s best to keep your mouth shut!


Our management lessons highlight different perspectives on workplace dynamics. The story above advises individuals to refrain from speaking impulsively or inappropriately when faced with difficulties. It serves as a reminder of the value of discretion, self-control, and strategic communication in management and leadership. While it may not always be appropriate to remain completely silent, it emphasizes the importance of choosing words and actions carefully to navigate challenging situations effectively.